I’m not opposed to forgiveness.
Or to salvaging relationships in which someone hurt you.
Both can be good in a lot of circumstances. People hurt each other, and often it’s something that people can get past and fix.
It’s just that: people put a lot of pressure on people who have been hurt to forgive and/or patch things up. Even to the point of telling them that they’ll never be happy until they do.
And sometimes, forgiving is a bad idea. Sometimes attempting to patch things up would make things a lot worse.
This is a decision someone should be making for themself, and it’s important to be aware that both options exist.