It said basically, “In a healthy relationship, all communication is respectful.”
That’s… not true.
In a healthy relationship, most communication is respectful.
However, even people in healthy relationships have fights. And people, during fights, are usually not 100% respectful to each other. In a healthy relationship people do not become abusive during fights, but neither do they necessarily stay totally respectful of each other.
This is something I had to learn.
I didn’t understand that even friends have fights and that people can get a bit mean or angry during fights. I thought that every time I had a fight with a friend, it meant the friendship was over, or potentially over. Because I had no model for a healthy friendship, and really didn’t understand fighting in the context of healthy relationships.
So… no. Not all communication in a healthy relationship is respectful. Most of it is. A lot of it is. But not all of it. And that’s not a horrible thing. It’s just how people work.