How to Talk to Anyone (for at least a few minutes)


So there’s this post going around tumblr that says,

you know those people that can literally carry on a conversation with anyone are amazing like wow how do you do that

And while I know this is one of these tumblr rhetorical questions, I bet a lot of people would like to know the answer.


annekewrites said:

That bit about “it seems really cheesy but…” I think is important.

Sometimes it’s exactly the stuff that seems “cheesy” or “way too basic” or whatever that is precisely the right thing to do, and we work ourselves into a panic because there’s no way it can be that simple!  Except sometimes it is.

realsocialskills said:

Yes. Sometimes people feel really, really pressured to be original and creative at all times, and like it’s a failure to do what most other people do, or to do something that’s a trope.

But actually, not everything has to be original, and tropes aren’t always bad. Some things are common for bad reasons, but some things are common because they work well and people like them.

It’s ok to do stuff that’s comfortable and effective even if it isn’t complicated or an original new idea.