Easy Tip for Talking to a Rape Survivor:

goldenphoenixgirl:

When reacting to someone’s story of being raped/molested specify that you’re talking about the abusers when you use words like “angry,” “disgusting,” “wrong,” or “evil.”

It seems obvious to people who haven’t been abused, but specifying will prevent your friend/loved one from misunderstanding or taking your words as confirmation of their self-blame.