genderhawk:

realsocialskills:

hi realsocialskills! i have been a fan of your blog for a long time, and i was hoping you might be able to help me.

because of my physical health, my amazing occupational therapist is getting me a new bed, and it’s arriving this monday! a hospital bed at that. it’s going to be adjustable and all, helping me immensely. the worry is, it’s going to be too hospital-y and i won’t be comfortable/at ease in it, and therefore unable to sleep. (the amount of time i’ve spent in hospitals for my own and other people’s health is staggering, so i’m quite concerned about this possibly being an alienating experience instead of a helpful one.) i’m already planning on putting my garland of rose lights around the side of it, and also spraying some perfume on it so it doesn’t smell so weird, but i’m not sure of anything else i could do to make it feel less weird.

any suggestions would be so welcome! thank you very much for your time, have a nice day!

realsocialskills said:

I’m not sure what to suggest, but I bet a lot of y’all do.

I wonder if there’s a way you could modify your bed that wouldn’t be allowed in a hospital? Like, putting stickers on it, or painting your name on it with nail polish or something. That might make it feel more like your bed that you control rather than like being in a hospital.

Anyone want to weigh in?

genderhawk said:

I had a hospital bed as my personal bed at home for over a year, using a mattress cover that was soft helped a lot (the bed had a water resistant cover that couldn’t be removed) and I wrapped it with streamers and decorated it a lot. I also used all my own bedding to avoid that hospital bed sheeting.