lemonwolfling:

Paradise Circus: Sometimes distance is better than forgiveness

missvoltairine:

lonelyhapax:

girljanitor:

realsocialskills:

Sometimes, someone hurts you in a way that’s permanently and forver dealbreaking.

Some people will tell you that you have to forgive the person who hurt you in order to move on. Sometimes, they will put lots of…

lemonwolfling said:

I completely agree with this. Sometimes forgiveness for someone who doesn’t deserve it only hurts you more.
Furthermore, people SHOULD be afraid that if they fuck up, they’ll lose you. If people hurt you, they should lose out.
That said.
Please.
Please.
Please.
Don’t demonize forgiveness. It can be very healing in the right circumstances. I fully believe in forgiving. But your well being comes first, always.

realsocialskills said:

There is a time and a place for forgiveness. It is just not *always* the right approach when someone hurts you. Sometimes it is. Not always.