So, people say this about people who are stigmatized in some way or another:
- “She has a disability, but she doesn’t let her label define her!”
- “He happens to be gay, but he doesn’t let that label define him!”
And… it tends to be in the context of an article or video that’s literally about how their difference and the way it’s labelled has a profound impact on their life.
It rings false, because if labels didn’t matter, the article or video wouldn’t be about them. It matters that some people are disabled or gay or whatever other thing people are afraid to name in a straightforward way.
It’s important to send the message that we’re all more than one thing, and that no label or category completely defines who we are. It’s also important to acknowledge that differences don’t stop mattering when they are stigmatized. We need to be able to refer to important aspects of who we are without evasion or euphemism.