mis-andry replied to your post“Arguing isn’t always ok”
i would think if you argue with someone about their boundaries they would feel unsafe about stating their boundaries in the future, even with other people, even if youre careful not to cross them after this. thats why its not ok
realsocialskills said:
Yes, exactly. If you make it painful and difficult for someone to express boundaries to you, it will deter them from expressing boundaries. Even if you respect the boundaries after you resist them.