Protip: when you find out someone has a phobia of something, do not talk about the thing they have a phobia of.
Don’t make complicated jokes about it.
Don’t make disgusting comparisons between the object of their phobia and food items.
Don’t try to talk to them about the subject at length.
Don’t talk about it.
Everyone who does this still considers themselves to be extremely “kind, understanding, and thoughtful”. Everyone does this. Fucking stop.