Don’t use other people as stim toys


A lot of us are taught that stimming is wrong. And, further, a lot of us are taught that stimming is wrong FAR more forcefully than we’re taught about other people’s bodily autonomy.

This can make it really confusing to understand physical boundaries. And sometimes, when people are figuring out…

omgfabulous said:

Consensual stimming is awesome and one of the deepest forms of access intimacy for me, personally. But yeah, word.

realsocialskills said:

I agree that it can be an excellent form of intimacy. I think it’s just important to recognize it as an intimate act, and treat it as such.