On solving the right problem
Not every problem disabled people have is a failure to understand social situations.
Sometimes the problem is that our bodies are considered socially unacceptable.
No amount of social skills training will change our bodies.
No amount of social understanding will make typical movement and typical speech physically possible.
No matter what we learn, bodies and brains matter. We’re still disabled when we understand things.
It’s ok to be disabled. It’s not ok to be bigoted against disabled people.
If we want to get anywhere, we need to make sure that we’re solving the right problems.