secretsofthedisabled:

realsocialskills:

secretsofthedisabled:

SRS: Yellow

tw: ableism, staring at disabled people

realsocialskills:

I look contagious but I’m not. How do I tell people this? How do I get them to stop staring and stop being afraid they’ll catch my uncatchable condition?
realsocialskills said:
I don’t know, unfortunately. Do any of y’all have strategies for dealing with this?

secretsofthedisabled said:

My answer even now is cover up. That’s all I can do. I wish there was a better solution, sorry. If anyone has one, I’d love it.

(I’m also chiming in that wearing a t-shirt with my condition on it is highly uncomfortable and just not feasible.)

realsocialskills said:

What do you mean by cover up? Do you mean like, wearing a lot of clothing? Or something else?

secretsofthedisabled said

For example, if the mark is on your neck, wear high collars/a scarf. On your leg, wear pants. On your arm, wear sleeves/an armband. It sucks to do this when you’re really hot, but I chose to instead of being stared at. (You may choose not to, and that’s fine, of course.)

Depending on what type of mark it is, and how sensitive you are, you may be able to use make-up.