survivablyso replied to your post “Anonymous said: how do you tell the difference between when…”

I sometimes ask for outside perspective from people who aren’t even at all familiar with the situation. Strangers, even. I test them by floating situations to which I know the answer first. If they’re reasonable, I’ll use them to figure it out.

realsocialskills said:

How do you find people to ask? Do you talk to people on Tumblr or Reddit or something? Or in person? I can see how this might work, but having trouble figuring out how you’d identify people willing to have that kind of conversation with a stranger.