I wrote a post a while back about writing characters with disabilities. I said that in real life, disabled folks experience social violence regularly. In order to write realistic disabled characters, it’s important to write in…
Having your cane ripped out of your hands while walking(sometimes causing me to fall) because I don’t ‘really’ need it. (Once, A woman in her early thirties came up to me and started lecturing me about mocking people who use canes and trivializing them, because it hadn’t occurred to her I could really be disabled.)
One thing that isn’t an attack but that happens to me all the time with a cane - walking next to someone who doesn’t pay attention to where your cane is, so they’ll accidentally kick it out from under you/step on the base/get their bag/coat caught on it. While unintentional, it’s thoughtless, and can still unbalance me badly.