About people who can’t or won’t NOT consent to things: by and large I doubt that the large majority of us will blame you if we don’t say no to something you suggest. If you make it an option to not consent and we don’t take it, it means we need to communicate better with you. I, at least, will only blame you if you manipulate me into doing something or if I’m scared to say no based on past experiences. We’re not out to get you, we just sometimes need to be asked things differently.